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Architecture Wednesday: Villa CP

01/28/2015 16:00:00 PM

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Joel Grey Comes Out

01/28/2015 12:30:00 PM

Joel Grey was the original master of Ceremonies in > read more

The GOP Can't Handle The Truth

01/28/2015 09:00:00 AM

After the Mid-term elections, when the GOP was given control of Congress, they spent a good chunk of time talking about how “America has spoken” when anybody with half a brain — which excludes most Republicans — knows that the GOP won, not be > read more

A Pair of Oklahoma Asshats

01/27/2015 16:00:00 PM

Boy oh boy, the Republicans in Oklahoma really hate The Gays. I mean, how else do you explain the sudden rash of anti-gay, anti-marriage equality legislation that is being proposed by just two of Oklahoma’s wingnuts?First up, we have Republican sta > read more

Brandon Smith Is A State Senator So He Is Allowed To Drive Drunk

01/27/2015 12:30:00 PM

Brandon Smith, a Republican … dontcha know … state senator from Kentucky is trying to have his DUI charge dismissed because a one-hundred-twenty-three year old addition to the state constitution bans lawmakers from being arrested while the legisl > read more

Weddings and Cocktails and Birthdays ... Oh My!

01/27/2015 09:00:00 AM

I’m back!Gosh it seems like I was off-blog for two days! > read more

Uh Oh

01/24/2015 11:19:00 AM

Computer ills ... and y'all know that I know so much about computers.Back soon. > read more

I Ain't One To Gossip But ...

01/24/2015 08:00:00 AM

I’m loving the new Fox show, > read more

PR All-St?rs 4 Ep 10: Separation Anxiety

01/23/2015 16:00:00 PM

All right, this week we’re gonna keep it simple, because I have a lot to say …Here’s the deal: Alyssa and Lisa Robertson from QVC — who seems to be made from some sort of plastic material, with perfectly spackled make-up > read more

Would You Hit It?

01/23/2015 12:30:00 PM

Ryan Guzman. He was in > read more

I Didn't Say It ...

01/23/2015 09:00:00 AM

Billy Crystal, who > read more

Random Musings

01/22/2015 15:00:00 PM

Still loving Obama’s “I won both of them” from the other night, and loving the fact that, as much as the GOP tries to portray him as a Muslim illegal immigrant, he keeps going and going and, well, gosh darn, people are liking him, again.His pol > read more

Huckabee: Ignore SCOTUS — The Law — If It Lets Gays Marry

01/22/2015 09:00:00 AM

Poor Mike Huckabee; I mean, he quit his job at Fox Not News to wait by the phone in case God called and told him to run for President, but God’s been busy giving AIDS to babies in Africa, or something, so what’s Mike gonna do now?Well, he’ll ta > read more

Architecture Wednesday: Aspen Cabin

01/21/2015 16:00:00 PM

I always liked the idea of a simple rustic mountain cabin, where you could slip away for a quiet weekend to rejuvenate and relax and retreat.But, since I’m a bit of a diva, simple and rustic just won’t cut it, but this 13,700 multi-bedroom, multi > read more

Photo of the Week: Dog.Gone.

01/21/2015 12:30:00 PM

This is the rug that greets you at the sheriff's office in > read more

MY SOTU Thoughts

01/21/2015 09:00:00 AM

I get it, I do. The State of the Union address is generally kind of a pep rally for one party or another; the chance to crow about what you’ve done, and what you want to do. And I get that it’s almost always partisan, with the side that doesn’t > read more

For One Memphis Parent, The Devil's In The Tail Lights

01/20/2015 16:00:00 PM

Out there in Memphis, Tennessee, at least one parent — and maybe more — have too much time on her hands.See, one day this woman > read more

Marjorie Silva Won't Bake A 'God Hates Fags' Cake

01/20/2015 12:30:00 PM

We’ve heard all the stories of florists who don’t want to sell flowers for two grooms getting married, and bakeries that won’t make cakes for same-sex-couples, but this is a new twist.Marjorie Silva, owner of the Azucar Bakery in Denver will ba > read more

Florida Police Use Pictures Of Black Men For Target Practice

01/20/2015 09:00:00 AM

I, for one, am really glad that MLK Day is over so we can go back to being the racially insensitive we are most every day of the year. I mean, that’s who we are, right, because how else can we explain this story?Down in Medley, Florida, the police > read more

From the 'It's Not The Heat, It's The Stupidity' File: SC GOP Pushes '2nd Amendment Awareness' Bill For Schoolchildren

01/19/2015 15:00:00 PM

I first got wind of this story from my Dad, who lives clear across the country; he sent me an email with a link to the story asking, “Is this true?”My first thought was, “Not even South Carolina is that stupid,” but then I thought, “Maybe > read more

WTF? Emily Blunt

01/19/2015 12:30:00 PM

I have always liked Emily Blunt; loved her in > read more

Repost: I Still Have A Dream

01/19/2015 08:30:00 AM

I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclama > read more

Sunday Funnies: The Rest

01/18/2015 13:00:00 PM

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Sunday Funnies: Je Suis Charlie

01/18/2015 07:00:00 AM

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I Ain't One To Gossip But ....

01/17/2015 08:00:00 AM

Paris Hilton is still around, and apparently still buying tiny animals. See, back in September she paid some $13,000 > read more

PR All-St?rs 4 Ep 9: Sleeping with the Fishes or The Episode That Really Pissed.Me.Off.

01/16/2015 16:00:00 PM

First off, yes, this episode pissed me off and I'll explain why … later … but first, let’s define > read more

Would You Hit It?

01/16/2015 12:30:00 PM

Armie Hammer.He played twins in > read more

I Didn't Say It ...

01/16/2015 09:00:00 AM

Common, accepting his Golden Globe for the sing 'Glory' from > read more

Random Musings

01/15/2015 16:00:00 PM

After the terrorist attack that left several people dead last week, this week satirical magazine Charlie Hebdo issued a new magazine, with yet another caricature of the prophet Mohammed on the cover.Translation: All is forgiven.The magazine, which no > read more

Photo[s] of the Week: Emergency Exits

01/15/2015 12:30:00 PM

Okay, I'm just gonna put this out there:I was touring the interwebz and found this Emergency Exit map and I was all flummoxed. > read more

Today in Christian Love: There Is No Funeral Because The Deceased Is Gay

01/15/2015 09:00:00 AM

Vanessa Collier was just thirty-three years old when she died last month, leaving behind a wife and children, and a family who just wanted a simple funeral for her. So they contacted the New Hope Ministries in Denver, and arranged to have a service; > read more

Architecture Wednesday: Cabo San Lucas

01/14/2015 16:00:00 PM

What better place than to recover from New Years Eve than in a house on the beach in Cabo San Lucas.Or in rehab. I kid, it wasn’t that bad.This home, set on a sandy beach in Cabo, allows the owner to entertain large numbers of friends and family wh > read more

The Turtle is a Liar

01/14/2015 12:30:00 PM

Two things I will not abide by: lying, dumbass politicians and zucchini bread. > read more

UPDATE: Judge Rules Against Florist Who Refused Service To Gay Couple

01/14/2015 09:00:00 AM

I’ve written about Barronelle Stutzman and her Richland Washington flower shop, Arlene’s Flowers, several times, the first time almost two years ago, so let’s replay the back-story first:Robert Ingersoll and Curt Freed live in Washington, and, > read more

A Golden Stream ... of Consciousness

01/13/2015 15:30:00 PM

I love Amy Poehler and Tina Fey … they keep it funny, and smart, and snarky … and sadly this is their last year unless the GGs cough up a boatload of cash for them to come back … I’ve started a GoFundMe page to add my own far-more-than-two-ce > read more

Bob's Golden Globe's Fashion Round-Up! YeeHaw!

01/13/2015 09:00:00 AM

MY BESTJulianne Moore; she takes risks with fashion, and sometimes bombs. Recently she wore a bright yellow, turtle-necked, long-sleeved ball gown made of neoprene … I know. But this silver sequined, ombré number, trimmed in feathers was avant-gar > read more

An Open Letter To Phylicia Rashad

01/12/2015 16:00:00 PM

Did you ever hear the expression, ‘Sometimes it’s best to say nothing’? I wish you had because maybe then you would have kept quiet, rather than coming out in support of > read more

WTF? Salma Hayek

01/12/2015 12:30:00 PM

First off, what's with > read more

ISBL Asshat of the Week: Shannon Bream

01/12/2015 09:00:00 AM

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Sunday Not Funny: Je Suis Charlie

01/11/2015 07:00:00 AM

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I Ain't One To Gossip But ...

01/10/2015 08:00:00 AM

Sad to report that Food Network Diva — and I don’t mean Bobby Flay, though he’d fit the title, too — Giada de Laurentiis and her husband of eleven years Todd > read more

PR All-St?rs 4 Ep 8: Big Splashes and Belly Flops

01/09/2015 16:00:00 PM

This week — after a slight holiday break — we meet up with the designtestants celebrating Michelle’s birthday at a coffee shop. How.Exciting! Nothing says > read more

Would You Hit It?

01/09/2015 12:00:00 PM

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I Didn't Say It ...

01/09/2015 09:00:00 AM

Mike Huckabee, on why he’s leaving Fox News:"I've never had so much fun in my life. I've met people I never dreamed I'd meet and I've played music with legends in the music business. But I also realize that God hasn't put me on Earth just to have a > read more

Random Musings

01/08/2015 15:00:00 PM

It’s been a while since I’ve Randomly Mused — darn those pesky holidays — but I do have something to say, first and foremost about a show past its prime or relevance and about a hottie on that show …Marshall Williams, an actor, model and co > read more

My Two Cents: Guns v Cars

01/08/2015 09:00:00 AM

I’ve told this story before, but, well, Carlos posted something to Facebook about guns and got some vile responses so I’ll talk about it again.It all began when we learned that Kroger stores in areas where open carry — being able to carry a gun > read more

Architecture Wednesday: The Carhart Mansion

01/07/2015 16:00:00 PM

To be clear, it’s not really the > read more

Today In Christian Love: You Can Be Fired For Supporting Equality

01/07/2015 09:00:00 AM

As usual, there’s Good News and Bad News.The Good News is that marriage equality has come to Florida … finally … while the Bad News is that the Catholic Church is so incensed over the idea of equality that the Archdiocese of Miami has threatene > read more

CBS Films Straight-Washes 'Pride'

01/06/2015 15:00:00 PM

It was hard for a gay when I was a kid. I mean, I didn’t see myself on TV — there was no > read more

Jeb Fumbles On Same-Sex Mariage ... Again and Again

01/06/2015 09:00:00 AM

That darn Jeb Bush; he’s oh-so-presidential, or at least he’s trying to be.As governor of Florida, he was against same-sex marriage even though he withheld his enthusiasm, and support, for the state’s 2008 campaign to rewrite the Florida Consti > read more

Ted Cruz: Two-Time Equine Posterior Achievement Award Winner and an ISBL Asshat Winner

01/05/2015 16:00:00 PM

You gotta hand it to Ted Cruz. I mean, no one in Congress works harder at doing nothing than our visitor from Canada — who decided to become a US citizen so he could run from president … of his homeowner’s association because that’s as close > read more

WTF? Lady Gaga ... Again

01/05/2015 12:30:00 PM

Okay, this time Gaga doesn't make the post because of the outfit, though it's slightly reminiscent of a Vegas Lounge act get-up from the mid-1970s.The > read more

Starting Monday Off With A Laugh ... And By 'Laugh,' I Mean Fox News

01/05/2015 09:00:00 AM

The good folks … how’s > read more

Sunday Funnies

01/04/2015 07:00:00 AM

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I Ain't One To Gossip But ....

01/03/2015 08:00:00 AM

It looks like uber rich David Geffen is having boy drama again.It seems that the 71-year-old Geffen’s 20-year-old ex-boyfriend — who was kicked off his college football team for making out with his wealthy daddy in the press box during a game … > read more

An Open Letter to Carla Alcorn

01/02/2015 16:00:00 PM

Dear Carla Alcorn,First off, let me say how sorry I am that your child, Leelah, your daughter, died last week. It broke my heart to hear her story, as I know it broke the hearts of many.Sadly, it doesn’t seem to have broken your heart because, even > read more

Would You Hit It?

01/02/2015 12:30:00 PM

Idris Elba's been in the news a lot this week, especially after Rush Limbaugh said he shouldn't play James Bond because he's Black and, well, Bond ain't Black.That's neither here nor there because I have a question ...Would.You.Hit.It?Yes or No. > read more

I Didn't Say It ...

01/02/2015 09:00:00 AM

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Happy New Year

12/31/2014 23:01:00 PM

I love the New Year. The freshness of what may be; the thought of infinite possibility; the idea that I am another year older. Okay, that last one I don't like so much, but since, as I tell my sister who thinks I never look any older, The Gays aren't > read more

Oy! What A Year We Had ...

12/31/2014 09:00:00 AM

Lots on my mind as we wind down another year …I keep thinking about Leelah Alcorn, the transgender girl who killed herself because her parents told her she was wrong, and a sin, and an abomination … and that since God doesn’t make mistakes, she > read more

Guns Are His Right ... And He Used His Right To Kill His Wife

12/30/2014 16:00:00 PM

Martin Gaytan, a 24-year-old Texas gun enthusiast — Enthusiast? In my house we just call ‘em ‘gun nuts’—has been charged with murder after he allegedly shot and killed his wife, Monica, during an argument over the weekend.Gaytan has always > read more

Different Parents, Same Issue, Different Outcome

12/30/2014 09:00:00 AM

Josh Alcorn was assigned the male gender at birth but that never felt right, and when he was fourteen he learned what ‘transgender’ meant; he learned that maybe he wasn’t Josh, that maybe she was Leelah. And suddenly everything seemed right; ri > read more

Rush Limbaugh: At Least He Admits He's Racist

12/29/2014 16:00:00 PM

This morning I talked about Stupid Anna Kooiman and lo and behold I found some more stupid, this time in the guise of Stupid — possibly drug addicted — and Racist Rush Limbaugh.Back Story: one interesting email from the Sony Hack details the idea > read more

WTF? Gwen Stefani

12/29/2014 12:30:00 PM

I like Gwen, I really do, but I cannot help but wonder why she dresses either like a rock-n-roll princess or a toddler.I mean, this looks like she rolled a kindergartner on her way to school stole her outfit and, possibly, her lunch money.Why, Gwen, > read more

FoxNews: The Dumbest "News" Network Ever

12/29/2014 09:00:00 AM

I know! You know! But still ...It all began with, yes, yet another airline disappearing over the ocean in Southeast Asia and the conspiracy theories are up and running already; it was a terrorist attack; it was hijacked; it fell into the ocean and sa > read more

Sunday Funnies

12/28/2014 07:00:00 AM

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I Ain't One To Gossip But ...

12/27/2014 08:00:00 AM

Word out of Hollywood is that Jennifer Aniston has hired an Oscar strategist named Lisa Taback, who previously worked on > read more

Photo of the Week

12/26/2014 14:00:00 PM

During the holidays, a Gay Couple came home to find a rather nasty slur scratched into their door, beneath their shimmering, glittering wreath, but instead of fighting hate with hate, they decided it might be best to teach the little bastards vandals > read more

From Our Kitchen

12/26/2014 09:00:00 AM

We had a nice mellow and lazy Christmas, just the two of us ... and The Kids. Late breakfast, a few gifts exchanged. Then we cleaned out a closet, created a garbage bag of clothes to give to Goodwill, walked the dog, bathed the dog, read a little, wa > read more

Merry Christmas

12/25/2014 07:00:00 AM

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Make The Yuletide Gay

12/24/2014 16:00:00 PM

This song is one of my favorite Christmas tunes, so I thought I'd share it four different ways,with four different singers.Kelly Clarkson, The Carpenters, Sam Smith, and ending with Judy, who probably sang it first, and in my mind sang it best.Merry > read more

Architecture Wednesday: Boatsheds

12/24/2014 12:30:00 PM

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John McCain FlipFlops ... Thank God We Dodged That Bullet

12/24/2014 09:00:00 AM

Thank goodness for Mama Grizzly Bore™, right? I mean, think about it: had John McCain not picked this un-vetted, unappealing, uneducated — at least about politics because she’s a whiz with Moose chili recipes — uninspiring moron to be his Vic > read more

Good News: Kathy Baldock Works To Bridge The Canyon

12/23/2014 16:00:00 PM

Last week I posted about an NYT poll I’d seen that said, sometimes, by just talking about LGBT issues to people who might at first glance seem anti-LGBT, we can change their minds; that by just being out and open and our true selves, we can show pe > read more

Good News: Andrew Hawkins and His Non-Violent Protest

12/23/2014 12:30:00 PM

Like a great many of us in this country, Cleveland Browns wide receiver Andrew Hawkins was more than a bit disturbed about the recent deaths of Black Americans by police, most notably the shooting deaths of Tamir Rice and John Crawford in Ohio.Twelve > read more

Good News: Michael Martin Comes Out

12/23/2014 09:00:00 AM

There are all kinds of ways to ‘Come Out;’ one of my personal favorites is the way comedian bob Smith described how he decided to come out in his book, the high-larious, > read more

Another Christmas Asshat: Stacey Clueless Dash

12/22/2014 16:00:00 PM

Stacey Dash used to be an actress. She was marginally successful in Clueless — > read more

WTF? Ansel Elgort

12/22/2014 12:30:00 PM

Ansel Elgort.I'm not sure who he is, an actor I think, but I do know that any and all sense of fashion he has went out the window the moment he looked at himself in the mirror wearing this too-tight-too-small-too-faux-leopard-too-Frankenstein-shoe mo > read more

A Christmas Asshat: Anti-Veteran Republican Tom Coburn

12/22/2014 09:00:00 AM

Okay, can we all stop pretending that the GOP cares about Veterans? I mean, sure, they’re all pro-veteran when it’s time to send them off to war, but once those men and women return home, the GOP is all, I’m sorry, and you are?Don’t believe m > read more

Sunday Funnies

12/21/2014 07:00:00 AM

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Random Musings

12/18/2014 15:00:00 PM

Up in Vermont, Bo Muller-Moore picked a fight with anti-gay fast-food chain Chick-fil-A over the use of the phrase "eat more kale" … similar to their trademarked "eat mor chikin" … and this week he won his legal battle after the U.S. Patent and T > read more

My Two Cents: Come Out, Speak Out, And Minds Can Be Changed

12/18/2014 09:00:00 AM

I am all about coming out. I want every LGBT person out, and out now, because I seriously believe, and seriously > read more

Architecture Wednesday: Red Pepper House

12/17/2014 16:00:00 PM

From above it looks like a small mountain on a remote island in the middle of the sea.From the ground it's a luxurious vacation rental in Lamu, Kenya, on an > read more

Children ... There Is Hope In Children

12/17/2014 12:30:00 PM

A teacher in England, who just happens to be gay, was speaking to his class as a part of the school’s anti-bullying week, and asked his students if any of them had ever heard the word ‘gay’ used as an insult.Nearly every student raised their ha > read more

Out Of Grief, Comes Hope

12/17/2014 09:00:00 AM

Matthew Ogston and Nazim [Naz] Mahmood were a couple, and, in fact were engaged to be married. But Naz needed to do one thing before the wedding: come out to his Muslim mother.So he met with her, and told her he was happy, that he was in love, that h > read more

The "Don't Jerk And Drive" Ad Has Been Yanked

12/16/2014 16:00:00 PM

Okay, so we all know you should never drink and drive; and we’ve all seen the ads out now that say you shouldn’t text and drive. But, out there in South Dakota, they apparently had a > read more

The Kids On A Sunny Day

12/16/2014 12:30:00 PM

We had some sun yesterday so all the kids gathered in the sunroom to stay warm, and to sleep.Clockwise from the top left: The Amazing Tuxedo, the Diva Miss Consuelo Roca Jones, the Pocket Dog, Ozzo, and MaxGoldberg, of the Boca Raton Goldbergs. > read more

SC Taxpayers Billed For Both Sides Of The Same-Sex Marriage Fight

12/16/2014 09:00:00 AM

I’ve often claimed that, down here in South Carolina, it’s not the heat, but the stupidity that’ll get you, and, well, my point has been proven yet again.As has been happening around the good old US of A lately, when a state's same-sex marriage > read more

PFOX: Liars and Asshats

12/15/2014 16:00:00 PM

Gay? Are we born that way, or do we choose it?Well, PFOX [Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays] an anti-gay organization that wants y’all to believe that The Gays chose The Gay is trying real hard again to make their point. This time they’ve erected a > read more

WTF? Hilary Swank ... Again

12/15/2014 12:30:00 PM

Hilary Swank has a new movie out, and wants another Oscar, so she's been hitting the red carpet and hitting it hard. And making it to WTF twice this season.Unfortunately, less notice is given to her film role and more attention is given to her choice > read more

Today In Christian Love: Beaten For Being Gay

12/15/2014 09:00:00 AM

Matthew Fenner joined the Word of Faith Fellowship church in Spindale, North Carolina when he was just sixteen; by age twenty-one, he’d left the church, after claiming he was beaten, strangled, held captive by five church members, mentally, physica > read more

Sunday [Still] Not Funny

12/14/2014 07:00:00 AM

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I Ain't One To Gossip But ....

12/13/2014 08:00:00 AM

For this year, the 20th > read more

PR All-St?rs 4 Ep 6: Shooting Craps

12/12/2014 16:00:00 PM

The PR is always a crap-shoot; you never know what the challenge is, or the budget or the time frame, or the twists, so this week the producers really gambled with the designtestants’ minds by having Alyssa Milano trot out a pair of ginormous dice, > read more

Would You Hit It?

12/12/2014 12:30:00 PM

Gaspard Ulliel is a French actor and model.He’s appeared in all sorts of French language films, but I first caught sight of him in his English film debut, > read more

I Didn't Say It ...

12/12/2014 09:00:00 AM

Gregory Angelo, head of the Log Cabin Republicans, on the GOP > read more

Random Musings

12/11/2014 15:00:00 PM

We’ve been watching > read more

ISBL Asshat of the Week: Senator James Inhofe

12/11/2014 09:00:00 AM

First off, though, we cannot forget to also name as asshats those in Congress who will, most likely, name Republican, and climate change and basic science denier, Oklahoman Senator James Inhofe as the next > read more

Architecture Wednesday: Bel Air Stunner

12/10/2014 15:00:00 PM

If you want to own "a place worth visiting," then this newly-built compound, which sits at the end of a very long, gated drive overlooking the 350-acre untouched Hoag Canyon, is just the place for you.Four bedrooms, four bathrooms, and it sits just u > read more

An Open Letter To Mark Wahlberg

12/10/2014 12:30:00 PM

Dear Mark,I kinda like you as an actor; loved > read more

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