Hi Eve,I would like to know exactly EVERYTHING that you can see in my LOVE LIFE, present and above all THE FUTURE (descriptions of places, people, time ... I would be very grateful if you could mention). Reason for this is total chaos and confusion I felt inside for a while.My second question is about a colleague: what is it that happened between us, or rather with him, why did he back off and will we friends again, or enemies for rest of our lifes? I have thought about this for over a year, and still think highly of him.I tried to asked a direct question if it was all about emotions, but never got a answer from him.Can you see and tell me what I wanted to hear so long, why did everything go this way???GRATEFULEvas respons;I begin with your question about your work buddy;I see a love triangle, did both of you had relations at the time when it all happened?The situation is difficult and uncertain between you.He do not really know what he wants.He literally love to talk with you and be near you, but any more then this,he can´t cope with right now or back then.He can not quite decide if he should continue in his current relationship or not.He is not the man who involve himselve in any new love relationships, before he finished his old.Anyway..I see an end later in his life with the current woman who is blond.He is probably not the stress-resistant and slopes when he can not have control.You have had more contact, I see more than just "hello" at the job, as messenger or any other text communication, but in the current situation, you can not do more than wait and see what life gives you during the time,he is not available for other than friendship so far.He is not insensitive to you but the uncertainty he feels,stops him from any action whatsoever.He is both happy and not happy in his relationship.The answer you are looking for is that he does not want to change his current situation right now and do not want to start something new behind his girls back.The risk is that this can continue in this energy for some time.Future;You have a man with a foreign background around you, but more as a ex partner and a relatively tough period of closure and practical things afterwards, but then comes the calm energy and it should be around you today, internal piece.Do not lend him any money thou...if you do he will be back for more and more.The love emotions you have in secret for your co-worker gives you the most uncertainty and sorrow.When you drop him a bit more and just accept the situation and begins playfully looking around and not look for someone particular,is when things start happen in your life.Suddenly, your co-worker mates up with you in both the separation and a move,but if it's this year or next, I can not certainly say.Why you need to release him NOW is for you to heal up and be stable,for when he comes, he is broken and if would be too,you two would not stand a chance.Now try to just relax and let relationships be.Have fun and play around a bit this summer and be that happy girl again.Be polite against him at work, but avoid personal conversations or queries with him.Dont start any connecting conversation with him,let him set the pace.
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