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1st Love: The Ugly Truth No One Ever Told Me (Pt. 1)
Published on 2012-05-21 13:09:27
It’s funny how you can date and cry over somebody for three whole years and never truly see them for who they are. I know that’s why they say Love is blind. But what they mean to say is First Love is blind. Because you look in your First Love’s eyes and see a hologram [...] > read more
Are You Addicted to the Pipe?
Published on 2012-05-20 16:17:13
'How many of you ladies have an emotional addiction? You are a slave to the 'Pipe' that you call a PENIS. You will tolerate any type of treatment, any form of degradation or disrespect to have it and to keep it. You are an emotional crack head. You will steal to get it. Married men, men in relationships are not off limits. From her vagina to your mouth. An addict never ask where the pipe has been.' Saw this post on my Facebook news feed. And it made me wonder, how many of us are addicts and don [..] > read more
Have Gender Roles Really Changed?
Published on 2012-04-28 13:52:13
13 Reasons I Love Black Men
Published on 2012-04-23 17:20:15
I’m feeling a little Angie Stone-esque with this post. I concluded a few months ago that I really don’t show enough outward appreciation to my black brothas. In fact, I flirted with the line of hate and disdain. Why? Mostly because I held onto the negative advertised image of black men these days. I believed [...] > read more
The REAL Fix for Black Marriage
Published on 2012-03-20 18:58:42
I’m tired of what I’ve been reading. Articles like An Interracial Fix for Black Marriage make my blood boil. So I decided to solve the damn problem myself. Oftentimes, when a certain group of scientists, psychologists, or curious individuals do a statistical study and analysis, the results get misinterpreted and hyperbolized by the public and [...] > read more
Vulnerability is the New Black
Published on 2012-02-24 14:37:43
I foresee vulnerability coming back into style. As we continue to watch the successful black woman achieve everything career wise but come home to an empty bed, we will suddenly understand that vulnerability is the key. And we will wear it proudly in the fashion of women like Michelle Obama, who has managed a career [...] > read more
Wait Did He Just Say Temporary Boyfriend?
Published on 2012-01-21 11:30:27
With the exception of that one guy who says black women should give up dating black men all together, when black men dish out dating wisdom–whether it’s Steve Harvey or Flavor Flav–I listen. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. No one knows black men better than other black men. And a wise [...] > read more
Join the DEBATE on Casual Sex!!
Published on 2012-01-20 11:29:11
Sex and the City
Published on 2012-01-13 11:14:04
Four beautiful women in their 30s sat around a small table discussing the new post-chivalry dating possibilities of the millennium. “Look, if you’re a successful single woman in this city you have two choices,” the blonde one roused. “You can bang your head against the wall and try and find a relationship. Or you can [...] > read more
Letter from the Editor
Published on 2012-01-06 15:21:01
New Year…New Breath…New Life…New Me Hello y’all!! Omg you don’t know how much I’ve missed you guys!!!!! I cannot tell you all I’ve been through from having my laptop die on me, to dealing with family issues, to finally getting two new jobs–life has found many a ways to keep me from you all. And [...] > read more
Are We Living in A Dream World?
Published on 2011-10-28 15:02:53
Freshly crocheted dreadlocks swung in unison, falling slightly below her shoulders, drawing my eyes to her slim waist and protruding lower half. Covered by a modest dress, she left more to be desired. She held a torn and tattered Bible in her right hand, indicating hours of studying and living with God’s word. Her walk [...] > read more
Everybody Loves A Put On: Awkward Black Girl
Published on 2011-10-16 22:18:40
Every once in a while, when you’re in the mood, you discover things worthwhile on your own. But most times, somebody else discovers that something’s cool before you do and puts you on. Everybody loves a put on. Especially when you’re put on by someone you share similar interest with. It’s almost like without seeing, [...] > read more
“When Great Sexual Chemistry Isn’t Such a Great Thing”
Published on 2011-09-26 22:21:12
Great sexual chemistry hardly ever means great compatibility... > read more
What Women Should Know About Men
Published on 2011-09-17 09:18:19
It always seems like a major advantage to homosexual relationships is not having to overcome biological differences. Who better to understand a woman than another woman? Who better to comprehend a man than another man? Which is why gay men often make great friends for women because they embody the best of both worlds. They [...] > read more
Silent Killers
Published on 2011-09-15 13:29:55
Hope is a simple healthy relationship technique that few ever employ > read more