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What Does Love Have to Do With This

Published on 2012-05-26 02:22:50

I stood before you cloaked in vulnerability. A shy smile and happiness graced my face. > read more

Remember the Way It Used to Be

Published on 2012-05-25 05:09:06

In actuality, people forget how they fell in love in the first place. > read more

I Will NOT Apologize for Knowing What I Want and Don’t Want

Published on 2012-05-25 02:05:27

A lot of people say their twenties were a time to make mistakes and to grow into your own. > read more

How to Transform a Bad Day into a Blessed Day

Published on 2012-05-24 07:16:16

How can one determine if a certain day will be a “bad day”? > read more

Your Time To Shine

Published on 2012-05-23 10:02:13

Everybody needs time to be recognized, to feel special, to SHINE! Shining regularly is as essential as eating, showering, and sleeping. > read more

Playground Politics: Grannies, Nannies, Mannies and the Wednesday Dad

Published on 2012-05-22 03:34:11

A day at the playground with the children. > read more

To Each His Own

Published on 2012-05-21 10:40:05

Our president now publicly supports gay/same-sex marriage. > read more

Just Give Me Some Peace and I’ll Be Quiet

Published on 2012-05-21 05:51:46

If we really want to have a higher self-esteem, then we must stop surrounding ourselves with drama and concentrate on ourSELF! > read more

Taking to Twitter

Published on 2012-05-21 02:04:48

Luv and Relationships going back to Twitter. > read more

No More

Published on 2012-05-19 02:20:53

When I woke I vowed to give up. No more trying to get you to see me, > read more

No One Ever Wants to Be Wrong

Published on 2012-05-18 08:41:44

It's really is unnerving and sad when someone cannot admit that they did something wrong. > read more

Get Him to Do It Till You’re Satisfied

Published on 2012-05-17 03:09:10

Don’t you hate it when you ask dude to do something because you can’t do it yourself—then 3 weeks later you have to ask again? > read more

His Heart Stopped; So Did Mine

Published on 2012-05-16 09:11:30

A beautiful soul, gone, at age 36. > read more

Don’t Be Afraid to Be a Single Parent

Published on 2012-05-15 07:31:43

Although single parenthood is extremely popular in present times, many still struggle with the concept of being a single parent. > read more

Motherhood

Published on 2012-05-13 07:12:19

Since my children didn’t come with instruction manuals, most of my parenting has been done by trial and error. > read more

Hope

Published on 2012-05-12 02:18:13

You asked if I had finally given up hope. I replied a simple, quiet yes. > read more

Rainbow Dreams

Published on 2012-05-12 01:09:00

A fantasy about a rainbow. > read more

I Don’t Want Your MAN!!! And She Probably Doesn’t Either!!!

Published on 2012-05-11 10:01:36

Not every woman wants your guy. > read more

Death of a Dream or Rebirth of Me

Published on 2012-05-10 09:56:12

The last nine months have been an emotional rollercoaster. I’ve shed so many tears that I’m surprised I have any left in my body. > read more

You Can Be Right or You Can Be Happy

Published on 2012-05-09 06:19:03

When you push a person to accept that they are wrong then they’re put in a position where they need to defend themselves, their answers, their feelings, or their responses. > read more

The Secret Life of A “Poor” Stay-at-Home Mom

Published on 2012-05-08 08:46:54

A story about a stay at home mom. > read more

You Have a Right to Feel Pretty

Published on 2012-05-07 06:41:25

It is so nice to go out somewhere and feel dressed up because of your accessories, smelling good and knowing that it’s okay that you didn’t spend a fortune. > read more

Goodnight Love

Published on 2012-05-05 02:15:22

This talk of love is beginning to bore me. I understand wanting and needing to have someone to love and be loved by in return. > read more

Under Control

Published on 2012-05-03 02:46:28

As my husband spends the bulk of his time away from home, he has found himself more discombobulated when he enters into our home. > read more

Jealous Friends

Published on 2012-05-02 08:54:54

The definition of a friend is a person known well to another and regarded with liking, affection and loyalty. > read more

When Is Guy/Girl Code Relevant

Published on 2012-04-30 10:28:56

Do not date or go after your friends previous girl/guy or even to talk to someone if your friend has shown interest. > read more

Almost Engaged

Published on 2012-04-30 07:52:27

Apparently, some believe that there are different levels of singlehood. > read more

Communication

Published on 2012-04-30 02:00:56

Couples list one of the major problems in their relationship as lack of communication. Having... more > read more

Sexting: Five-One-Six

Published on 2012-04-30 02:00:46

Sexting is a good time to feel your partner out about adding pictures and/or movies to your sex play. > read more

eDating

Published on 2012-04-30 02:00:43

Broaden your horizons on the Internet and e-dating will be a little bit more easier. > read more

Cheating Yourself

Published on 2012-04-30 02:00:35

Ways that we cheat ourselves. > read more

Expect the Unexpected

Published on 2012-04-30 02:00:32

At the very beginning of my relationship I came into it with certain expectations.  In... more > read more

She Fell in Love with Her Brother…

Published on 2012-04-30 02:00:26

Your mom breaks down and begins to use curse words you've never heard before. Your dad walks in and nearly passes out. The love of your life has a look of horror on his face. You think you must be hallucinating, delusional because you thought you heard your boyfriend-soon-to-be-fiance whisper, "Dad?" > read more

Life’s Lesson

Published on 2012-04-30 02:00:08

The word DIVORCE was still ringing in my ears and I was alone. You were gone and the bed we once shared looked so foreign. > read more

My Aim

Published on 2012-04-28 10:29:26

I love you and I understand the way life makes you feel sometimes. We have grinded out the rough and hard times together but there seem to be days when you can’t take the stormy weather. > read more

Sometimes We Just Need a Friend

Published on 2012-04-28 10:05:07

Sometimes we just need a friend. One who will be there for us. Someone we know we can trust. A hero in a time of shame. Who’ll say, “You’re not the one to blame”. > read more

Freedom

Published on 2012-04-28 02:08:23

I can't do it anymore. Tired of being trapped by others expectations. > read more

The Family Ties

Published on 2012-04-27 10:12:19

Dealing with divorce. > read more

If It’s Over… Why Does He Still Use Me…?

Published on 2012-04-26 08:24:13

No one can walk over you unless you first lie down so they can do it. > read more

Project Me: Bringing Sexy Back

Published on 2012-04-25 07:23:01

Is it me or is there something incredibly sexy about kissing/being kissed on the forehead… > read more

Get Respect

Published on 2012-04-24 03:44:59

So what's up with these kids now? I'll tell you what--a lot folks have had kids without the least bit understanding or idea or even desire to raise them. > read more

Inner Circle

Published on 2012-04-23 10:23:47

They accept my flaws and weaknesses the same way they appreciate my strengths. > read more

The Ultimate Single Parent

Published on 2012-04-21 09:38:06

The ultimate single parent has to be my beautiful mother MILDRED WILLIAMS. My mom had 11 children by her husband and ended up raising all of us by herself because my dad was an alcoholic and passed away at the age of 47. My mom had 6 boys and 5 girls. > read more

A Perfect Match

Published on 2012-04-20 02:00:05

Everyday you see an ad for a dating site for eHarmony, Match or Plenty of... more > read more

Desperation for Affection

Published on 2012-04-19 02:57:51

The definition of affection. > read more

Just Friends

Published on 2012-04-18 08:44:17

A story about a friend to a friend no more. > read more

Why Can’t We Get Along?

Published on 2012-04-17 08:45:03

Obviously, reality television does a great job at portraying us as villainous mean girls who cannot seem to do anything besides fight. > read more

Dating Myself

Published on 2012-04-16 09:08:17

Never talk to your single, attached girlfriends or your married girlfriends about your lack of potential dates. > read more

Live Your Life

Published on 2012-04-16 08:37:11

Ten plus years in a union and he/she wakes up one day and decides it’s no longer we... it’s all about me. > read more

Sisterhood

Published on 2012-04-14 07:45:58

A solidarity of women. Supporting and giving encouragement to one another. > read more

You Didn’t Know You Wanted It Until You Couldn’t Have It Anymore…

Published on 2012-04-13 09:46:13

A story of a miscarriage. > read more

Joyous Justice

Published on 2012-04-12 04:36:03

Will we remain passionately united, for whatever cause we face? > read more

Listening is Key to a Lasting Relationship

Published on 2012-04-12 02:00:19

Couples list one of the major problems in their relationship as non-communication. This is said to be what opens the door to the wandering eye. > read more

Project ME

Published on 2012-04-11 08:15:16

It's time to put me first! > read more

Who Am I? – Jacqueline of All Trades

Published on 2012-04-10 07:56:06

An article about a woman who find herself. > read more

Have Yourself a Good Man or None at All…

Published on 2012-04-09 05:02:18

The biggest lie that we women tell themselves is that they need a man. > read more

When Negativity Reigns It Pours

Published on 2012-04-08 12:53:37

I personally witnessed how a few people can spew their negativity over a large group of positive people. > read more

The Best Friend… To Go There or Not…

Published on 2012-04-06 02:28:35

So you have a best friend of the opposite sex and have been friends for a long time and then someone asks that question, "So why haven't you two dated?" > read more

Understanding His Starting Points

Published on 2012-04-05 07:24:57

How to give your man the respect he needs to be the man you want him to be. > read more

Self Love

Published on 2012-04-04 09:55:27

Sometimes we want happiness and to be loved so bad that we don’t want to accept that we are not happy or hope that by taking the lead and doing right that they might get in line with us. > read more

My Peace from Shattered Pieces

Published on 2012-04-03 08:01:51

A woman's story about a miscarriage and a miracle. > read more

Big Brother, Employment and Facebook

Published on 2012-04-02 06:39:25

Employers who are brave enough to ask this question are skating on thin ice and risking a lot in the name of ‘screening’ applicants. > read more

More Flies with Honey

Published on 2012-03-30 02:00:47

Constant verbal barrages slowly kill your partner’s love for you. Love turns to tolerate turns to endure turns to dislike turns to resent turns to can’t-stand-your-evil-ass. > read more

What About Your Friends: A Look into Friendship and How They’re Perceived

Published on 2012-03-30 02:00:33

Friendship is a way to connect with others. > read more

The Gossiper

Published on 2012-03-30 02:00:32

The age old question comes into play do friends talk about each other > read more

Love Thyself

Published on 2012-03-30 02:00:30

Masturbation is defined as “the stimulation or manipulation of one's own genitals, especially to orgasm > read more

Avoid a Breakdown During a Breakup

Published on 2012-03-30 02:00:21

Some of the practical things you can do after a break up. > read more

How Do You Define Friendship?

Published on 2012-03-30 02:00:20

Friendship places certain expectations that can be difficult to live up too. > read more

Sexting: Getting to Know You

Published on 2012-03-30 02:00:16

Yes, you can get to know someone through sexting. > read more

Would He Be Proud?

Published on 2012-01-16 01:00:27

I’ve already gotten in trouble for one of these ‘Just Another Day’ post. This won’t be any different. I decided to do this the day after Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr’s birthday because I started to reflect on quite a few things that are going on in today’s society. Anyone who knows me knows I [...] > read more

It’s Okay to Quit

Published on 2011-10-19 02:00:13

I can’t remember where I read this. I just copied and pasted it. It’s from motivational speaker Veraunda Jackson. It tells us: It’s ok to quit… 1. Quit arguing with people about the same old foolishness! Respect their position and keep it moving! 2. Quit telling people your secrets when you know they are not [...] > read more

It’s Free

Published on 2011-10-13 14:53:22

I was standing in line at the grocery store about to pay for my items and the young man in front of me was paying for his groceries. I wasn’t paying too much attention until I noticed it was taking him forever to pay. And then I noticed it… He paid for his groceries with [...] > read more

Judge a Book Its Character

Published on 2011-10-09 14:39:10

I receive emails on an almost every day basis telling me there aren’t any good men (women) out there right now and the pickings are slim. I’m going to introduce someone. Ladies, pay close attention. He was adopted. He was a college drop-out, only completing one semester. He used to sleep on friends’ floors while [...] > read more

Chivalry Is On Life Support

Published on 2011-10-03 16:08:39

I was pumping gas and I noticed a car pull up to the pump. A woman was driving and a man was in the passenger seat. She got out of the car and went inside and paid for her gas. When she came back out, she went to the pump and started pumping the gas. [...] > read more

What If Troy Davis Is Supposed to Die?

Published on 2011-09-21 20:20:08

Let’s skip over the famous Johnnie Cochran line, “If it doesn’t fit, you must acquit” and let’s think about a couple of things. What if Troy Davis is supposed to die? Before you RETWEET or SHARE this post saying I have completely lost my mind, have an open mind, sit back and relax. If you’re [...] > read more

Flamed Out

Published on 2011-09-21 13:37:05

This video was floating around Facebook the other day. It would be easy to rail on CNN in their poor music choice and to call Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton for the picket signs in Atlanta. Naw, this rant is going out to YOU… the person reading this post right now. See, you’re the one [...] > read more

Dear Daddy

Published on 2011-09-19 01:52:33

When surfing the net the other day I ran across this trailer. I won’t give any initial commentary because this four and a half minutes says it all. Now, I usually don’t go on a “Black” rant because I believe LUV encompasses all but… It would be easy to pass blame around as to who [...] > read more

Yet Another Football Season

Published on 2011-09-12 17:28:11

Whew, the NFL lockout is over, training camp started on time and NOW, it’s time for some football. “Good men” are not in church. That’s very true. It’s not because they don’t believe in God. It’s football season, DUH!!! Don’t let anyone tell you anything different. The “bad men” are taking advantage of the fact [...] > read more

Club Rules

Published on 2011-09-10 20:27:15

I’m going to call a few people out because this stuff at the club shouldn’t be going on. For those who STILL go to the club… Always eat something before you drink. Losing your guts because you drank too much and you had nothing to eat is not something you want to live with. Ladies… [...] > read more

Two Wrongs Don’t Make It Right

Published on 2010-12-28 11:56:35

A story about revenge and how it can consume you. > read more

Men Gotta Do Better

Published on 2010-11-11 12:59:57

I was having a chat with a young lady and she was telling me about an issue that’s been ignored for quite some time. It’s not that I’ve been ignoring it on purpose but I have finally found a way to formulate it into words. RESPECT O > read more

Yet ANOTHER Commentary on Eddie Long

Published on 2010-09-28 15:50:30

Who is the REAL loser in the Eddie Long scandal? > read more

Friends How Many of Us Have Them

Published on 2010-09-03 09:41:03

I have struggled for the past twelve hours trying to find a topic to write about. My mind has drawn a total blank. I have decided to ramble because I have a lot of jumbled up things in my mind right now that need to release. I know I won’t be a > read more

Aww… How Romantic

Published on 2010-08-31 09:10:37

A romantic proposal with Boone's Farm on the menu. > read more

The One

Published on 2010-08-29 11:54:29

A poem describing 'The One' > read more

I Promise I Will Always Love You

Published on 2010-08-25 08:43:53

A vow of love. > read more

Mastercard

Published on 2010-08-25 01:10:10

A story about a man who used his Mastercard wisely. > read more

Groundhog Day

Published on 2010-08-24 08:55:09

This blog contains adult language. Readers discretion is advised. It’s a little unusual for me to wake up at 7am on Saturday. But for some reason my body woke me up. Something told me to write this post. After taking a sip of my french vanilla > read more

Armpit Hair

Published on 2010-08-24 08:19:48

Has shaving armpits become a thing of the past? > read more