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Curvalicious (Flavia Del Monte) Fitness Blog Update

Published on 2012-05-21 05:28:00

I'm promoting a new diet/exercise program over on my fitness blog. It is from Flavia Del Monte, and it is designed specifically for women. Please check out my review of Curvalicious if you want more information. > read more

White Soap and Compromise

Published on 2012-05-19 02:37:00

I was amused when Mare Cris told me she didn't care for the yellow bar of soap that I always used in the shower.  "Who cares what color the soap is?" I asked.  She told me it clashed with the colors of the bathroom (it's a girl thing).  More importantly, she wanted me to start using Johnson's Baby Soap because she liked the color (white) and the scent. I now use the soap she prefers, and I > read more

The Big 4-0

Published on 2012-05-10 09:59:00

Birthday Dinner with my Wife I turned 40 today! This has been a great birthday because I celebrated it with my beautiful wife.  She cooked lasagna for lunch, and we've spent the day reflecting on God's goodness. I’m profoundly grateful to God for the life He has granted me. I know I’m right where He wants me, doing what He wants me to do. Thanks to everyone who has greeted me through > read more

Mass Intentions (Fitness Blog Update)

Published on 2012-04-27 06:09:00

One of the most popular online bodybuilding programs I've reviewed is Mass Intentions (MI40) from Ben Pakulski.  I think the training videos are one of the main strengths of MI40--you'll learn something new from each one.  I'd recommend this program for intermediate or advanced trainees who want to break through mass building plateaus.  You can check out my review for more information. I'd > read more

Avengers Movie Review

Published on 2012-04-25 04:05:00

Movies based on comic books tend to be either major flops or some of the best flicks of the year.  Fortunately, many of the recent big-screen interpretations of Marvel Comics did not disappoint (Iron Man, Captain America, and Thor come to mind). We knew these before-mentioned movies were all building up to the Avengers.  Comic book nerds like myself have all been wondering if this movie would > read more

The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey (Book Review)

Published on 2012-04-19 23:04:00

My wife and I have read several books on marriage. We've been blessed with a better understanding our responsibilities and how we are to relate to each other as husband and wife. But there's another issue we've decided to learn more about: money.  Financial issues are the #1 cause of conflict among married couples, and we are not naive enough to believe we are immune.  We want to have a plan, > read more

Stubborn Love (Encouragement for Singles)

Published on 2012-04-16 19:18:00

A while back I shared our love story--how Mare Cris and I met and fell in love. Words can hardly express just how happy I am right now.  I’ve only been married a month (as of today), but I can’t imagine life without her. But there’s another part of the story I haven’t shared. I left it out before because I didn’t want to take the focus off my relationship with my beautiful wife (fiancée at > read more

Love and Respect (Book Review)

Published on 2012-04-14 01:06:00

I’ve just finished reading a book entitled Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs. The premise of this book is pretty simple (quoted from the back cover of the book): “A wife has one driving need—to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need—to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy.” The author came to > read more

Renegade Diet Review (Fitness Blog Update)

Published on 2012-04-07 02:32:00

A while back I started promoting Jason Ferruggia's latest e-book on my fitness blog.  You can check it out here: Renegade Diet Review.   This diet is based on the concept of intermittent fasting.  It's definitely worth checking out if you are trying to get lean.  > read more

Daytime Worship Service@Hope Angeles

Published on 2012-04-03 21:43:00

Hope Angeles will now have a daytime worship service--10:00 a.m.  This Easter Sunday (April 8th) will be the launch of this new time.   Please be sure to spread the word to anyone you know here in Angeles City--we are excited about this new worship time! We'll also be continuing our 9:30 p.m. night service for those who work in the malls. Our worship service is held at the second floor of > read more

In Sickness and in Health

Published on 2012-03-29 05:57:00

Our apartment was filled with the familiar sound of my wife’s laughter this morning. Normally I wouldn’t give this a second thought, but this week has been anything but normal. My wife got sick Tuesday—really sick. I took her to the Angeles University Foundation hospital that night because her fever spiked to over 39 degrees C (over 102 F). The doctor took one look at her throat, > read more

His Needs, Her Needs (Book Review)

Published on 2012-03-24 05:39:00

My wife and I have invested some of our time this week to read His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage.  This book was recommended to us by a couple we greatly respect (a pastor and his wife). The author begins the book with this premise: everyone has a "love bank," which is kind of an emotional version of a bank account.  You receive "credits" in your "account" when your spouse > read more

Wedding Thanks

Published on 2012-03-22 00:51:00

Mare Cris and I would like to publicly thank everyone who made our day so special! Here are some of the people or companies we wanted to mention: *Our families (the Sanders family and the Nitura family). *The sponsors (Ninongs/Ninangs).  *The wedding entourage and singers. *All our friends and guests who were able to attend. *Hotel Elizabeth, Baguio City  *Sharon Quizon House of > read more

Married!

Published on 2012-03-19 19:28:00

"The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the LORD." -Proverbs 18:22 Mare Cris and I got married on March 17th in Baguio City.  We'll write another post soon so we can thank everyone who made it such a special day.  I'll also post more pictures on my Facebook page (facebook.com/kuyakevin) as we get them.  Photo Credit: Bing Tajon (http:// > read more

Prenup Pictures@Facebook

Published on 2012-03-08 22:11:00

You can see pictures of Mare Cris and me over at my Facebook page: Facebook.com/KuyaKevin Special thanks to Bing Tajon--our photographer for these.  You can check out his tumblr blog here: http://tajonite.tumblr.com/ Speaking of Facebook, I want to remind everyone that I'm using Facebook.com/KuyaKevin and trying to cut down the number of contacts in my personal/private account.  > read more

Real Marriage: The Truth About Sex, Friendship and Life Together (Book Review)

Published on 2012-02-23 22:45:00

Mark Driscoll and his wife Grace recently published a book entitled Real Marriage: The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together Let me say this before I get into the review: Driscoll tends to evoke a love-him-or-hate-him kind of reaction. I have found his books (the few I’ve read) and some of his sermons to be helpful, but I don’t agree with him on everything. That’s all I can really say > read more

When Sinners Say "I Do" (Book Review)

Published on 2012-02-16 21:05:00

I bought When Sinners Say "I Do": Discovering the Power of the Gospel for Marriage some time ago, before I met my fiance (maybe it was an act of faith).  Mare Cris and I have both read it as a way to prepare ourselves for marriage, and we were both impressed with what this author had to say. Dave Harvey has articulated the power of the gospel within marriage.  He makes this powerful assertion in > read more

Basta LoveLife Seminar (February 4th, 2012)

Published on 2012-02-05 05:09:00

With my fiance and the CSM Staff Yesterday (February 4th) was a great day.   Church Strengthening Ministry (CSM) invited us to do an all-day seminar on love and relationships. Mare Cris and I really enjoyed spending the day with students and church leaders.  We'd like to thank everyone who had a role in the planning and preparation of this event.  We'd also like to thank all the attendees > read more

Fitness Blogging Update

Published on 2012-01-28 04:31:00

John Romaniello There's a new fat loss program coming out by John "Roman" Romaniello.  I'm excited about this one because it incorporates some strategies I've used personally with great success (intermittent fasting, fasted training, etc).  You can read my review and articles here:  Fat Loss Forever Review. > read more

Our Love Story

Published on 2012-01-23 06:46:00

I promised to tell you a little more about our story, so here goes. 2011 B.C. (Before Cris) I'll start this story by rewinding a few months--back to August of 2011.   I was 39, single, and determined not to give up on love (despite some serious disappointments over the previous 12 months). I went out on a few friendly dates from August through September.  They were very positive > read more

Basta LoveLife Seminar, February 4th (Saturday)

Published on 2012-01-18 21:14:00

I'll be doing a Basta LoveLife seminar in Manila on Saturday, February 4th at the Church Strengthening Ministry building.  As you can see, there's a discount for registering early and a copy of Basta LoveLife is included.   This will probably be your only chance to hear me speak in Manila this February.  I'm busy with planning my wedding and will not be booking any other speaking gigs in the > read more

I'm Engaged!

Published on 2012-01-05 03:39:00

It's official--I'm engaged!  This is Mare Cris, my future wife.  She's an incredible Christian woman and I'm so blessed to have her in my life.  I'm overwhelmed with joy and gratitude. I'll share our story soon. In the meantime you can pray for us as we plan the next steps. > read more

Royal Overseers Manila--Gotesco Regency Towers

Published on 2011-12-21 16:36:00

Some People Have Under-Sized Hearts Royal Overseers: real-life Grinches.   I'd like to share my unfortunate experience of renting with Royal Overseers Inc, the company that currently manages Gotesco Regency Tower A in Manila.  I rented a unit in Gotesco Tower C from 2005 to 2010.  I was renting from the owner of the unit (through a broker) and there were no problems (tower B and C are > read more

Angeles City: Unang Buwan (First Month)

Published on 2011-12-03 00:37:00

I've been in Angeles City for a month!  We've rented a place for Hope Angeles to meet on Sundays.  It is located near Angeles University Foundation along Sto Entiero St. at the RCBC building (it is the white and blue building on the rotunda).  We meet up on the second floor. Right now we are meeting Sunday nights at 9:30 p.m.  This time may sound a little weird, but it is perfect for mall > read more

Fitness Blog Updates

Published on 2011-11-28 02:45:00

I have two more quick updates regarding my fitness blogs.   My latest post over on the blog is MI40 Mass Intentions Review.  This is a new bodybuilding program from Ben Pakulski. I also have another announcement:  I have a new fitness blog: Muscle Review.  This is a new project I'm working on so we'll see how it goes.  I really wish I had thought of this name/domain back when I first started. > read more

Basta LoveLife Podcast Update

Published on 2011-11-18 03:10:00

Hey guys, Here's an update Basta LoveLife Radio Show/Podcast:  We've been behind on posting new episodes. Sorry about that--October was a crazy month. But there's good news: Erwin and I have been able to go back to a more interactive format (the way we used to do the show years ago).  I've posted the episode from the first week of November.  You can check it out here: Basta LoveLife@The Edge.  > read more

Youth Life Student Center Open House

Published on 2011-07-04 10:06:00

Hey guys, It's OPEN HOUSE at the Youth Life Student Center--Morayta.  Stop by some time, and be sure to visit Friday nights for Youth Gig (Worship).  YLSC is located next to McDonald's on Morayta. > read more

The Gospel and Gay "Marriage"

Published on 2011-06-28 22:42:00

I’m sure many of you have seen the story about “gay wedding” ceremonies being performed by a group in Baguio (a city here in the Philippines).   My regular readers know where I stand on this, but I want to reiterate the biblical position fo > read more

Jesus, Friend of "Sinners": Divinely Disturbed

Published on 2011-06-18 00:47:00

There’s something that’s been on my mind for quite some time. I’ve been meaning to write a post about it, but it’s taken me some time to really process what I want to say. Or maybe it’s just that I rarely have profound thoughts, so I want > read more

Call Center Agents: Free Anger Management Seminar

Published on 2011-06-15 01:38:00

The GCF Connect Ministry is offering a free anger management seminar on June 25, 8:00 a.m. at GCF Ortigas.  You can read more about it here: GCF Call Center Ministry: Anger Management > read more

Watch Me on Word Up this Sunday

Published on 2011-06-08 21:17:00

Hey guys, I'll be on the Word Up show this Sunday, 8PM on Zoe TV (Channel 33).  We'll be talking about the way media influences young people's perspectives on love.  You'll see me interviewed alongside a pocketbook author.   > read more

Word Up TV Show on Zoe TV Channel 33

Published on 2011-05-26 09:23:00

Hey guys, Just wanted to let you know about Word Up, a new TV show that will be airing soon.  This show will deal with all kinds of issues that affect Filipino youth.  The pilot episode will be May 29, Sunday, 8PM on Zoe TV (Channel 33).  I was > read more

Harold Camping, False Predictions, and False Prophets

Published on 2011-05-24 10:26:00

Harold Camping is at it again: he’s rescheduled the end of the world from May 21st to October 21st. I thought he’d keep his mouth shut for a while, but predicting the end seems to be big business (Camping’s “ministry” draws millions of dol > read more

The King James Bible Controversy

Published on 2011-05-06 12:25:00

I’d like to share some of my thoughts about the controversy surrounding the King James Version (KJV) of the Bible. I never intended to get involved with this issue, but I keep seeing Filipinos post links from KJV-only websites on Facebook. Let > read more

Alabama tornadoes, Japanese tsunamis, and the cursed creation . . .

Published on 2011-05-04 11:20:00

. . . from the “ring of fire” to “tornado alley.” The last couple of months have been disastrous (literally). I’m not speaking of personal loss, but of the thousands of lives that have been affected by natural disasters. March 11th: I > read more

Peter, Betrayal, and the Unseen Battle

Published on 2011-04-19 01:37:00

It is now Holy Week--a time we use to contemplate the last week of Jesus’ life before the crucifixion. I’m not sure why, but a few verses of Scripture have been on my mind. I’m referring to a conversation between Jesus and the disciples, with > read more

The Cross: God's Revelation of Love

Published on 2011-04-11 01:37:00

Easter Sunday is quickly approaching. It's the time when we think more about the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.  I'd like for all my readers to reflect on the cross as God's ultimate revelation of love to us. Let's think about th > read more

Death by Love: Letters from the Cross (Review)

Published on 2011-04-10 01:33:00

A good friend recommended Death by Love: Letters from the Cross (by Mark Driscoll and Gerry Breshears) some time ago.  I brought a copy back with me from the States, and I've finally taken the time to read it. Let me first tell you about my impres > read more

Basta LoveLife Show, April 2011: Current Stations

Published on 2011-04-07 23:12:00

Hey guys, I just wanted to give you an update on the current stations and air times for the Basta LoveLife Show: Lucena: The Edge 90.3 FM, Thursday nights at 8:00 p.m. and Sunday afternoons at 5:00 p.m.  Davao: The Edge 104.3 FM, Wednesday night > read more

Basta LoveLife Show on Lips 106 (Eastern Manila, Calabarzon)

Published on 2011-04-04 20:31:00

The Basta LoveLife Show is coming to DWYG LiPS 106.3 FM!  This station's signal reaches eastern Manila and some parts of Calabarzon like Rizal and Batangas.  Our show will air Saturday afternoons from 4-5 p.m. This is our first time to be on the a > read more

"Emotional Purity"

Published on 2011-03-31 02:55:00

I’ve been promising to write an article on "emotional purity." I get asked about it every once in a while, and I also see this term on websites/blogs. There’s even a book with the same title as this blog post. So what I do I think? I > read more

Basta LoveLife Show, March 29th

Published on 2011-03-29 00:41:00

In this episode: *Relationship warning signs. *Public displays of affection (PDA). *"Sexting" You can listen Wednesday nights on The Edge Davao, 1043 F.M. at 9:00 p.m.  You can go to their website and click "listen online" to h > read more

Marry Me by Train (Music Mondays)

Published on 2011-03-28 04:43:00

Here's Marry Me by Train. I found this song over at Women-Ish (Thess) and played it on last week's radio show. > read more

Younger Boyfriend (Age Gaps and Relationships)

Published on 2011-03-27 23:32:00

I’m sure some of you were unable to listen to last week’s radio show/podcast. We’re working on making it available on-demand over at The Edge. Anyway, here’s one of the questions that was asked: Hi, Kuya! I have been so blessed by your mi > read more

Basta LoveLife Show, 2.0

Published on 2011-03-22 23:56:00

We finally have a new episode!  It will be aired tonight on The Edge Davao, 1043 F.M. at 9:00 p.m.  You can go to their website and click "listen online" to hear it via internet.  I did this latest episode solo (Erwin should be rejoinin > read more

Waiting for "The One"

Published on 2011-03-15 06:06:00

 A while back I wrote a post about God’s will and "the one," and eye-opening concept for many. Once again I’m going to invite you to take the red pill and take a critical look at another related concept: waiting for the one. It goes > read more

Love and Good Intentions

Published on 2011-03-03 01:05:00

I still remember something one of my Christian Education professors told me. He had a special gift in mind once one of his children decided to get engaged. He would take them to divorce court. That’s right—divorce court. There they would watc > read more

Faith, Evolution, and Irreducible Complexity

Published on 2011-02-28 21:57:00

I’m a man of faith--I believe in the authority of Scripture. But I must confess, I used to have a little bit of trouble with the whole “Creation vs. Evolution” thing. I’ve always loved science, and most biology textbooks present Darwinian e > read more

February was Fantastic!

Published on 2011-02-27 20:48:00

It's funny:  February used to be my slowest month of ministry.  It's the month of projects, exams, preparation for graduation, special school events, and all kinds of things that make students busy.  The flurry of activity means they have a really > read more

God's Will and "The One"

Published on 2011-02-20 23:56:00

"How can I know this is the one God has chosen for me?" I'd say this is one of the most frequently asked questions I get, especially when speaking at churches. My answer begins with two points: *I really don’t believe God chooses our > read more

This Friday@Youth Gig: FAQ's

Published on 2011-02-14 18:41:00

Hey guys, This Friday (February 18th), yours truly will be speaking at Youth Gig.   I'll spend some time talking about Frequently Asked Questions re: love, purity, and relationships.  What I have to say about some of these issues might just surp > read more

Romantic Tunnel Vision

Published on 2011-02-11 20:48:00

I’d like to talk about a mistake many singles make in searching for love. Let me first introduce the concept of “tunnel vision.” The idea is you look at something with a constricted or narrow view, as if looking down a tunnel. You only see l > read more

Fatima Seminar Venue Change

Published on 2011-02-10 21:30:00

Fatima students: please note the change in venue for my seminar on February 15th.   It will be held at the Youth Life Student Center, located near the campus. > read more

February Speaking Gigs

Published on 2011-01-29 21:42:00

Here are the speaking gigs I have lined up for February so far: Saturday, February 5th, 6:00 p.m. Deparo Methodist Church Sunday, February 6th, 9:30-12:00 a.m. Book Signing for St Francis Book Store (third floor food court) Friday, February 11th > read more

Confessions of a Recovering Cynic

Published on 2011-01-28 23:13:00

I’m finally feeling inspired and coherent enough to put it into words something that’s been on my mind. I’ve been thinking about cynicism and the dark role it often plays in my life. “Cynicism: An attitude of scornful or jaded negativity, > read more

Tagpuan--Abby Asistio

Published on 2011-01-26 09:42:00

Here's Abby Asistio's first official video: Tagpuan > read more

Psalm 37:4 Delighting and Desiring

Published on 2011-01-19 23:09:00

Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. -Psalm 37:4 These words from the Psalms are inspiring, yet a little bit confusing. We know that every promise in the Bible is true—Jesus Himself said that the “script > read more

Sending Money Online

Published on 2011-01-17 22:24:00

A while back I started looking into good options for sending money online.  I usually just use my American ATM card, but the local machines have started adding pretty ridiculous fees.  In other words, I was looking for a more cost effective way to > read more

The Armor-Bearer: Who's Got Your Back?

Published on 2011-01-16 23:48:00

“I got your back!” One of my buddies said that to me a few days ago. I knew these weren’t empty words—he has proven himself to be a loyal friend. For some reason this reminded me of a story in the Old Testament. Saul (Israel’s first k > read more

Acoustic Night@Youth Gig

Published on 2011-01-12 20:17:00

It's time for the first Youth Gig of 2011! Friday at 6:00 p.m.--Acoustic Night! Feel free to join us at the Youth Life Student Center, located at Morayta across from FEU (right next to McDonald's).  All students are welcome! > read more

Relationship Warning Signs

Published on 2011-01-11 23:12:00

My friend LJ Salceda wrote the foreward to Learning the Hard Way: True Stories of Heartbreak, Healing, and Hope.  Here's one piece of advice she gave: ". . . when "red flags" appear, please take them seriously." So true!  With > read more

My Advice to Parents (Video)

Published on 2011-01-05 04:21:00

I'm not a parent, so I'm not pretending to be an expert on raising children.  This advice is simply my perspective as a guy that spends a lot of time talking to students. > read more

My Advice to Teenagers (Video)

Published on 2011-01-03 21:03:00

Here's a segment from an interview I did with Church Strengthening Ministry (my publisher). > read more

Lose Fat or Gain Muscle in 2011

Published on 2011-01-01 21:08:00

Need to lose fat or gain muscle in 2011?  Visit my fitness blog.  There are plenty of helpful articles, and I also stand by the products I promote 100%.   Don't fall for scams and gimmicks--get honest, helpful information on getting in shape. > read more