ABC's of Swinging

Love without boundaries.. One year mark

Last Sunday Mrs ABC and I marked our one year anniversary with Mr and Mrs Shallow. Funny I still use those code words for our lovers, but it's only to help those following this blog. Yes, one year in a relationship that most would consider insane, dangerous, silly, too difficult.. did I miss one? Seriously, after reading about most poly relationships, I've found that most are doomed from day one.Mrs Shallow hates it when I refer to this relationship as a poly one. And deep down, I don't con

First real update.. Yes, we have it!

Kind of left it in the air last May, but it's time to come clean. Yes, my wife and I have contracted HSV2 (Genital Herpes). It's funny that today I make that announcement, but last night my wife mentioned she maybe having her second outbreak, which I later confirmed examining her. This one is a lot less painful then the first, but it's the final confirmation that we have this nasty little disease.So is it the end of our world.. OH HELL NO!! Hardly.. but it has caused us to reflect on our cho

Decided to bring back my blog

I've decided to bring back ABC's of Swinging for the time being. Reason I took it down were for personal reasons. A family member had found the blog, and frankly I felt uncomfortable with it out there at that point. Since then I've decided that what ever my "family' thinks they know is just fine. This family member that does read this blog is unlikely to tell others, but if she found it then it's just a matter of time before more find out.One reason I'm bringing it back is that we (Mrs ABC a