If you have ever been advised that your better half is pregnant and you are unprepared, or maybe you just don't want the child, the months ahead, as you deal with the pregnancy could be trying at best. The coming weeks of pregnancy can be unsettling as you try to deal with the fact that you will soon be a parent. The months during pregnancy are probably easier for an expectant mother to deal with, however the way your men think about this could end up being a “kill joy” for the expectant mother, especially after they conceive and are ready to deal with all the responsibilities that come with being a parent.