No, it is not chocolate, flowers or stuffed animals. It’s not even sex. It’s not beer, football, or girls night out. Woman have a deeper requirement from us guys. So what are the three things guaranteed to drive your woman wild with desire and passion for you?

Guys that fail to provide these three things will not keep her happy for the long haul. Any man worth his salt has learned that the secret to being happy in a relationship is keeping his lady happy.

Affection is not, calling on your way to the bar to tell her you won’t be home for dinner. Affection is showering her with a kind sense of awareness of her through purposed thought and planning. Give her your time. Your focus. Your ear. Look in her eyes when you communicate. She is silk, not burlap. She is not a thermos, she fine Venetian glass. (Venetian glass is a type of glass object made in Venice, Italy, primarily on the island of Murano. It is world-renowned for being colorful, elaborate, and skillfully made.) Treat her accordingly.

Go out of your way to create moments that communicate to her through HER ideal of love and friendship. Listen. Ask questions about her. Rediscover the details of her. Nothing says affection like fascination. Be fascinated by her.

Face it, we live in a time where women are raised to be stronger and more independent .  Men are scolded for not being more feminine. News flash, women don’t want us to be girls. They don’t want us to be gorillas either.

Your woman needs to know you are aware of her world, and the harm that can come into to it.  To know that you are there to offer her strength. Men make the mistake to only look for potential lovers or stalkers. Women need protection from their own emotional responses at times. Their world assaults their feelings, their self-esteem –even their identity. Our job is to reassure her of her worth. To protect her from false illusions of beauty and competitive body images, is our greatest offensive defense of her soul.

Tell her you love her and why. Show her that you are aware of her and her space in this world. Anticipate her steps and meet her there . Opening doors, paying for dinner, and shouldering her tears is just the beginning. If she is of value, allow no violence into her mind, soul or body. She is under your care.

Even the strongest, most capable woman in a relationship with a man, prefers a man who knowswhere he is going. Men today are becoming boring. No adventure. No goals. No ambition.

A man who can not lead himself in personal restraint, or in times of crisis or success, can not hope to lead another, much less a capable and intelligent woman.

So you want to impress your woman? Have a plan. Work that plan, and invite her to help you achieve it. Show her a road map. Give her a reason to partner with you in success. A man without a plan for his life, does not yet need a woman to support it. Equally important, a woman who pairs with a man without a plan, has opted to get into a vehicle with a blind driver.

With affection, protection & direction offered with the engagement ring, a couple is on the path to a fun and adventurous romance.

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