I'm a lover. I have always been and will forever be a lover. Love keeps the world happy. Love makes most things right. Love is a universal language spoken from one's heart.
Love is good.
On the other hand, lust is a universal language spoken from one's loins. Lust keeps the world temporarily happy. Lust doesn't make everything right, but the gratification is awesome.
Lust is . . .as lust does.
We often enjoy mixing the two together to achieve a "desired" result. Sometimes we get what we want, but the majority of times, we have set ourselves up for failure, then we feel stupid after the fact.
I'm learning how to deal with both spectrums; however, I'd rather be a lover than a lecherous fool. Remember this, if you are afraid to fall in love, you are afraid to live.