Have you found yourself wondering whether you need a relationship rescue service? Is your love life showing signs of trouble? Has your relationship gone stale? Do you find that you don't spend much quality time with your partner and there are no signs of affection between you anymore? Do you sometimes feel that your partner would rather be somewhere else instead of being with you?
There are many reasons why relationships go cold and quite often it can be saved. If you're partner isn't showing you any attention or affection it could be because she has other things on her mind. She may be worrying about health issues, about money or about her job. She may be feeling stressed and run down and just wants to relax when she gets home. Lack of attention and affection doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't love you.
In any relationship communication is very important to work through these tough times. The book "The Magic of Making Up" by T Jackson is great at explaining how to improve communication in a relationship. He explains how most relationships actually break up as a result of a lack of communication than for any other reason. If a couple will not talk to one another then they have no hope of working through any problems they face.
If you have any worries or concerns about your relationship then they will only become worse if you cannot openly discuss them. Problems can seem much worse than they are and can become worse in your mind when they are not discussed and solved. If your partner doesn't know about your worries or concerns then they cannot do anything to help solve those issues. The longer problems go on without being dealt with the worse they become and then they are much harder to deal with.
If you have any issues in your relationship it is best to find a quiet time to talk together and discuss your feelings. You need to explain how you feel because you're partner isn't a mind reader and can't help you if you don't tell her. You also need to listen when she wants to talk and try to understand her feelings. When you both listen to each other and try to understand the other person’s feelings then it is much easier to work through any issues that arise.
A relationship takes hard work and communication is vital to success. You need to have trust and respect to be able to keep love alive and the relationship running smoothly. When you have good communication then you generally have trust and respect for one another.
Communicating with your partner is the best way to solve any issues and to keep your relationship happy and strong. If your relationship seems to be going stale then you need to talk about the problem and what you can do together to fix it. If you feel the relationship is going stale then there is a good chance that your partner feels the same way. If neither of you talk about it then it will continue to get worse until the relationship is beyond rescuing. But if you talk about the relationship and work through it together then you won't need a relationship rescue service, you will save your relationship together.
Do visit the magic of making up where you will learn how to deal with the situation you are currently in and how you can save your marriage alone.