There is something that is generally common with the seduction game- that is, when you're actively looking out for girls you think you'd like to hook-up with, it is a general experience which a man undergoes while out playing the game.

This kind of scenario normally unfolds, If you find your self talking to a couple of girls in a group, you may also find your self in a bar or party with a friend or two having drink,

You've got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she's proving the hardest to connect to - sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she's not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It's like she's playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.

This does not happen for the fact that you are not her type, it is for the simple fact that sometimes things happen (or don't)- there's a different, special reason the girl you're interested in doesn't appear to be interested in you and it's got a lot to do with psychology and social standing. It is true that, when you show you're interested in a good-looking girl who's with her friends, you ultimately bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth.

Being the hottest among them, she must have observed your seemingly interest in her, and as a result she will tend to put up a stiff, hard to get style, which she believe will make her win some command from her pals, but she must be careful not to drag this too far, so that you don't turn your attention completely to her friends.

by using a theory which i call the pretender tactics, it is possible to challenge her personality,this you will achieve by turning more attention to her friends while discussing, making her feel- not too important to disturb your cheerfulness in discussing with the friends;when she notice this diversion, she will do everything possible to bring back your concentration to her; because she will definitely want to gain back your attention by showing some more concentration in what you say,being the hottest among her friends, she is sure of putting an additional effort to make you notice her the more,and feel her personality up as the most beautiful in the group.

It is common with most women, she gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have - and, of course, you'll be happy to have her. She is obviously, the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the first place. Here's how to apply the pretender theory, your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and "win" you back. visit: http://sexpositionsmistakes.blogspot.com for more tips on how to win a lady's love completely

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