Become a Baby Whisperer.

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Become a Baby Whisperer.

Posted on Nov 21 2012 at 01:34:00 PM in People

 Become a Baby Whisperer.
 whisperers read a horse's cues and respond in a way that the horse understands,using body language and voice tones. Baby whisperers relate to infants in a similar manner.

It is not hard to become a baby whisperer. Read all the books and then close them with a resounding slam. To become an expert on any baby you might meet, pause for a moment to look and learn from each infant, because he will be checking you out at the same time. Just keep in mind that infants are complex little people who see, hear, touch, communicate, receive information and who above all, remember.

Of course we can readily see that babies react to loud, sharp or deep voices but a newborn will even turn to look at a voice he remembers hearing in the womb. It was amazing to watch my first grand-daughter turn towards her mom and dad's voices in recognition. When her parents cuddled her, she calmed down immediately because she was constantly reassured of their love and devotion while she was still in the womb. Now out in the world, she knows that she is safe and protected especially in their arms. This is why all babies are sensitive to the approach of a stranger.

The most blatant personal example of a stranger- infant situation that I can recall is my six-month-old daughter. I was holding her when a tall, slender, older priest, dressed all in black, gently reached out to hold her. He smiled and patiently waited while Rachel tensed her little body, drew back and looked him up and down very suspiciously. She drew back a second time, even further, and once again glanced from his head to his feet and slowly looked back at his face again. A third time Rachel repeated the process and then suddenly she relaxed, broke out into a wonderful smile and reached her own arms out to lean forward so Father could pick her up.

That baby was receiving unspoken messages from Father's facial expression, tone of voice, body language and emotional and spiritual 'vibes' that radiated from his inner spirit. In short, even though Rachel was not talking yet, she was not an idiot. We tend to forget that.

Michael and I were lucky because we somehow understood, right from the start, that we were relating to another human being when we communicated with our babies. I stopped and listened when they cooed and then I answered them when they finished cooing. It might sound foolish but I believe that this attitude instilled respect for themselves and others. I tried to treat them as people, albeit little people.

Sometimes family and friends were critical of my inefficient way of mothering. I just couldn't make myself mother them any other way. Perhaps it was because I was not used to children. On the other hand, my mother, let us 'help' her even as toddlers. Basically, I just included the kids into our life as intelligent little people with feelings, opinions, tastes and preferences. If we respected each child's preferences , they cooperated and worked alongside us better. In the end, this impractical, slow way of doing things made life run smoother.

Some people are intimidated by babies and little chidren. Just remember, babies are not idiots but smart little people who can't talk yet and you'll be fine

 

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Created: Nov 21 2012 at 01:34:00 PM
Updated: Nov 21 2012 at 01:34:00 PM
Category: People
Language: English

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